Men who sweet talk

Something that just crossed my mind again tonight. Men who call every lady a sweet name. They say they're wanting a girl who will settle with them, and they may even tell you its you.


I dont know about other ladies, I can't speak for everyone, but for me--- if I see a guy calling several ladies the same name he calls me---well then in my eyes, he is nothing special. Every man thinks they are different and will claim to be different. Apparently, so do men who say they are godly.


We will have to agree to disagree if you think there is nothing wrong with a guy who calls says the same sweet things to different women. I don't melt at that, and I sure will lose interest fast. Thats IF they even had my interest to begin with.


I'm unique, and I'm special, and yes, I have high standards-as far as morals and values go, and I won't settle for anything less. I'm not high maintenance, I don't spend money and I won't spend theirs.


Guys, if you are going to talk to a girl, and you have interest, and the girl has none in you---but you want the girl to---well any interest you might possibily gain down the road---you just killed it by making another girl feel just as special.


See, we women want a man who is not going to make other women feel special, but instead, we want a man who is going to make that ONE feel special and the other women to say "I want that." ....that is the kind of man I'm keeping my eye out for.


Of course, I wan't a godly man. and some day I will settle down. But he is going to have to be something BIG and special. I have dreams, and I have big ones, and they include the Holy Ghost, worship, praise, praying together and so much more. TOGETHER.


Like wise, a man who tells me Im beautiful, and this and that, then turns around and tells 3-8 other women the same thing----has lost my interest as well. Because to me, that just doesnt feel genuine. I won't look twice again at these guys. They will settle. So kudos to you if that works for you.


Its okay to be nice, and pay compliments---but if you want girl to feel special and know you are sincere, don't go paying the rest of the world compliments, and especially after you get her, others should be in awe of the relationship the two of you have. Thats my guy and I'm sticking to it. Compliments can be given freely---in the KNOW that this one guy is in love with that one woman and the compliment is exaclty that--a kind truthful honest compliment that won't cause damage anywhere.


Just my 2 cents and IMO's for the night.