People and the negativism that surrounds them

It amazes me how people wonder why their lives are so bad and why things go wrong for them, when all they do is lash out or they want to be angry and hold anger towards others, and respond in anger when someone is not nice to them. THey retaliate with hatred. Ugliness. Do you not realize this does not come from above? I dont mean a one time thing, where we all get upset once in a blue moon, I meanpeople who continue to show this.

These same people make me cringe when they say "I'll pray for you.".... The same way----people who PRETEND to be so good, act like theyre so sweet and wonderful, but in reality all they do is lie and decieve and dont get caught (or so they think theyre not caught ha)

Personally, I dont really put much stock into a person who claims to be a christian, but shows through their words and actions that they are for lack of better wording "a force to be reckoned with." (in a not good way) so when they say "ill pray for you....."...personally I dont care if they do or dont, because.......

Have you not read the verses Romans 12:20 and Proverbs 25:21-23?

Grudges are like bricks. They WILL weigh you down. Why let a little situation that will NOT matter in 5 years--stress you out?

When someone is rude to me--I just smile. Sometimes I even shake my head, smile and wave. (yeah it annoys them further ... and?) Sometimes its THEIR fault, like the girl who failed to stop at a stop sign at a 4 way and I was already moving across and she gives me the dirtiest look and the bird. really? lol well i laugh. Im not normal. I dont get mad. I dont want ot be normal becuase anger seems to be the norm these days.

Yes i get "UGH" when people say stupid stuff. or keep doing things and making excuses. or allowing behavior or whtever the case may be--justifying their or their childrens behaviors------- it annoys me to no end and stresses me out. But i look up, i shrug it off and I hand it upward cuz heck I aint got time for that.

I dont have time for those people. In 5 years it is NOT going to matter. Theyre not WORTH my stress or upset. So I try to remind myself that.

It amazes me of people who complain about how bad their lives are, and wonder why the lord doesn't help them. When you pray, do you ask the Lord to help you see inside your heart where you need to make changes? Something we should all do, especially if we wnat to genuinely change inside of ourselves to please Him. We're not here to please eachother, but it is great to set wonderful examples.


Soem people drink to get drunk constantly, lie because it makes them look good (it really doesnt but they think no one knows so no harm done right) , they bad mouth others and pretend to be friends with those people, or tell pretend theyre perfect and they don't do any of these things, when in fact they do.... and yet, they wonder why their life is so bad. I often wonder, if they would stop a moment and look inside of themselves with HIM---perhaps if they ask Him to show them, then He would, and they could say 'ooooh' and make changes accordingly. They may even not realize they're making someone look bad with petty words, because its just a habit of theirs. I see so many on facebook ask "why is He not answering my prayers".....and I wonder why they really have to ask.

So many are set in their ways "if you dont like me too bad." I think this is a sad way to be. If you want your life to be better, you should AIM to be better. Improvement is among every opportunity. There is no opportunity taken away that we cant improve our response, our feelings.

I feel REALLY sorry for people who thinkt he world owes them. I feel just as sorry for the people who think theyre justified in their anger towards others because someone "did something" to them. I shake my head and think "Lord, I am really sorry..." I pray alwyas that He will always help me to search withinmyself. To me its important. I care. I care especially what christ thinks of me. Sometimes He even has to remind me He knows, even if no one else does.

He is my rock, my salvation and my strength. I am made in His image for His Word tells me so and I know I am human, but I need to TRY for His sake, to act accordingly as to what is expected of me. AND try because I want to. Because I want to please Him, and because it feels good :) Is it hard? Yeah. cuz even I make mistakes. :(

I love Him, and I love myself enough----that I want only light and goodness in my life. I have no time for the ugliness that society allows to intertwine them. I give until I can't give anymore---until darkness threatens to reel me in, and then I remember to obey, to step further back, because they think they're walking in light and they can't see the darkness that consumes them. :( I have to back out before I get consumed.

Yep, I would say life is definitly a challenge, and no one said a walk with Him would be easy either, but oh I smile because its way better than anything else. Goodnight blog readers.


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